"With my classmates and mentors"
Have I ever considered
quitting, you may ask? Oh yes! Not just once or twice but many times! But I
remain to stay. Why? How? That's what I share in the book “How to Survive Mondays.”
Since I was a little kid, I
knew I wanted to become an author someday. So when I grew older, I took a few
small steps to make my dream come true, like learning how to write, learning
how to publish and of course writing every day. But it is only when I joined
the 90-Day Book Writing Challenge that I finally materialized my first
book.
And I owe that to our
mentor, Sha Nacino. The guides that she gave us make writing a book accessible
to anyone, even if you have complicated work loads, like myself.
Through this course, I was
blessed with a community of like-minded people, my classmates. We only meet
virtually online and today is our first time to meet in person, but the bond we
formed is very special to me. Because without them, without their contagious
enthusiasm, without their encouragements, perhaps, I would not be able to
survive writing “How to
Survive Mondays.”
But why Mondays? Why not
Tuesdays or Saturdays?
During my early years of
employment, I despised Mondays! I would drag myself to work on a Monday
morning. I would glance at the clock every other minute. I would groan to
myself, I wish it was Friday again!
When three of my closest
friends resigned from work on the same week, I was so devastated. I said to
myself, “Why am I still here?”
I was jealous of them
leaving the company. So I wrote a very emotional resignation letter.
But when you are at the
height of emotions, you have to avoid making a big decision. Instead, you have
to cool down. Sure, if I resigned, I would be free from work stress. I could do
whatever I want. And perhaps I could change the world.
But at time, changing the
world was not my number one priority. My two sisters were still in college. And
a portion of my salary was allotted for their tuition. So if I quit, they would
also have to quit school. That, I could not allow to happen.
So instead of submitting my
resignation letter, I took a vacation leave. I said to my boss, “Sir, I need to
cool down.”
That day, I went to Ormoc
City, which is just 45 minutes away.
While inside the van, I
took my tab and wrote the article “How to reignite your work-life excitement.”
It’s just a short article to encourage myself.
When I submitted it for the
company newsletter, a few people responded to it positively.
When I posted it on my blog
and became my most viewed article, I was so thrilled. I wondered perhaps I was
not alone after all. Perhaps many people could relate to my employment
situation.
I read my blog over and
over as if it were written by someone else. And I would say, somehow it worked!
Because until now, I still work for the same company for 8 years. And I plan to
stick around for a few years more.
Mondays also symbolize my
first few years of employment, which was really a struggle. Because I needed
money for the college education of my siblings, I decided to stay. But I had to
find ways to make my stay worthwhile.
I prayed for mentors and I
was blessed with plenty of them. I learned from them not only how to survive my
Mondays but also how to enjoy my job and find meaning in doing what I do.
My simple wish is to share the
lessons I learned from my mentors to those who easily get burned out at work,
to those who lost the excitement in their job and to those who feel stuck in
their career.
I hope that this book “How to Survive Mondays”
will bless you in your job and in other aspects of your life.
1 comment:
Congratulations, Frank, for successfully launching your first book! I look forward to getting a copy.
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